Steps In Addressing Your Depression (It Can Help Your Relationship)




Depression is a mental state that often refers to an extreme sadness that takes out your energy. It affects your behavior and personality. Depression is not a static illness. There is an ebb and flow to symptoms that many non-depressed people misunderstand.” Says Deborah Serani, PsyD. You occasionally experience doing things that you don’t usually do and sometimes, it even gets in the way of how you treat yourself and interferes with how you handle your relationship. Therefore, it is essential that you know the steps for addressing your situation. Here are the ways on how to deal with your depressive disorder.


Know The Cause Of Your Emotional State – When you say that you’re depressed, you need to be specific. You have to determine your current condition and know what causes the depression that affects you as of the moment. From there, you can think of options on how to address the ongoing issue you’re dealing with because sometimes, due to overthinking that you’re experiencing a mental condition, you are just formulating an idea that you’re indeed in the state of depression even if you’re not. The fact is, despite decades of research into this question, scientists at the U.S. National Institute of Mental Health and research universities around the world still don’t really know the cause of depression.” says  John M. Grohol, PsyD.


Address One Issue At A Time – It’s understandable that you want to attain peace of mind and be yourself again. However, pushing yourself in simultaneously figuring out solutions that can address tons of your problems won’t help you. It will only add pressure to your emotional and psychological well-being. You need to address one issue at a time so you can control your behavior and emotions. You need to focus on one available result and cut down the number of your problems to get a reachable goal.




Allow Yourself To Talk To People – When you are depressed, you attract the negativity that comes along with it making you feel that you are alone and unworthy. However, you need to stop doing it. Do not allow yourself to embrace isolation because it will only make things worse. Try to talk to people and open up about your condition. Let them know that you’re willing to change things and show them that you are trying your best to become the better version of yourself. Psychotherapy, or “talk therapy,” is a general term that refers to treating depression by talking through your triggers and responses with a licensed mental health professional.” says Katie Hurley, LCSW.


Do Not Be Afraid To Ask For Help – Gather strength from the ones you love and let them become part of your life. Don’t try to push them away because you know it will only hurt your feelings if you do. Ask them to be there for you and let them know how much they mean to you. Don’t let your mental state ruin your relationship with the people that are willing to stick with you in your battle with depression.  Allow them to witness you at your worst so they can be with you at your best.


Seek Professional Advice – If you think that you no longer feel in control of your mental condition, don’t hesitate to undergo therapy and treatment. Professional advice from a therapist will give you a chance to understand the things that you’re going through because their expertise will walk you through the process of recovery so you can allow yourself to become more aware of your capabilities when it comes to handling certain stressful situations.




Don’t let depression define the kind of person you are and aim to become a better you. Addressing your psychological and emotional state can guarantee you to have a better working relationship in the long run.